I REACHED OVER THE TOP OF COMPUTER AND GRABBED IT FROM THE BOTTOM OF THE FLAT BAR AND PULLED IT HARD OUTWARD AND IT SNAPS INTO PLACE. AFTER THE STAND IS OUT, YOU CAN PULL OR PUSH AT THE TOP OR SIDES OF THE COMPUTER TO SET THE ANGLE THAT WORKS BEST FOR THE USER. MINE FELT THE SAME WAY AND DIDN'T BREAK.
I thought mine was going to break when I pulled it out to make it stand. The tech told me sometimes you have to make it "click" once and sometimes it "clicks" twice before it comes out enough to stand the computer up. Good luck.