Camcorders with LANC or Control-L are very hard to find. LANC has been phased out some time ago, especially on consumer grade camcorders.
Mic Inputs were also hard to find on Camcorders but a slowly coming back as are Head Phone jacks.
You could look at the Sony HDR-HC9 that has a Active interface shoe which provides a location directly on the camcorder for adding optional accessories like external lights and microphones:
http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage...The Canon HF S10 found here :
http://www.bestbuy.com/site/olspage...has both Mic input and Head Phone jack.